Respect from your teenager can be difficult
BAMtime is designed to help you with this issue - the key is to respect the emotions, physiological changes and way of thinking your teenage son is going through. When he feels you respect what he is going through his defenses drop and it opens discussion to what you expect from him in respect.
If we feel someone doesn't care about our circumstances our natural response is to not care about what they are going through.
This applies in this new relationship you are building with this new person called a "teenager".